Marion, thanks for being so honest about your feelings on this matter.
I too have had a few worries about how the Major really feels about the whole project to get him his CMOH, i have always assumed (hopefully correctly) that the Major has given it his support, even though he can't be seen to take an active role in this matter.
I joined the Dick Winters site, like most members, because i believe that he does deserve the ultimate accolade for his service to his country, if i found out that he would rather let the whole thing drop or if he had become embarrased about the whole project then i also would remove my support.
I suppose it's easy to lose sight in what really matters and become so obsessed with our aims that we can forget about the man himself.
Anyway, until i hear different i will go on the assumption that we have the 100% backing of the Major and will help in any way possible to get him his long overdue award.