Todd and I and? Where is everyone??

[Walt's Daughter]

Colin, I know you are absolutely correct. I know that we have certainly lost people to Facebook and other social media sites. That's a fact. And another similar phenomena has also affected me lately. Let me explain...

 

With the advent of stores like Sam's Club, Walmart, and Meier Thrifty Acre, more and more people have stopped shopping at smaller venues or at least cut back on the frequency of their visits. Little mom and pop stores like ours (my husband and myself) are really suffering, and in fact, as of December 1st, our store which was built in 1889, will cease to exist.

 

While a number of factors have contributed to our closing, the building of a nearby Walmart had a huge affect on our store. Now I can't fault people for wanting to save money and to do what's best for their families. I completely understand; you gotta do what you gotta do. However, the very nature of stores like that one only forecast doom for the mom and pops. WE ARE GOING THE WAY OF THE DINOSAUR! It's just a social evolutionary fact. But it's oh so sad. I digress, but wanted to show a parallel effect on another real world event.

 

Let's get back to the forum...

 

And as much as I don't want to admit it, Facebook has really hurt the SOCIAL aspect of this forum. And Colin, I do realize this site still plays and important role as a historical hub and is very helpful to so many, and I take great comfort in that, but I still miss the old camaraderie. I miss all the jokes, the banter, the laughter and touching base with so many of my friends. It simply feels lonely.

 

Many times I will get up in the morning and want to share something, but then have second thoughts about it for I think, well, who will care, for most of the time I'm lucky if anyone replies at all. And I know it's not just me, for I see it happening to other folks too. Therefore I try even harder to reply, so they know they are simply not talking to thin air.

 

I can tell by the stats and see that "x" number of people are reading certain topics and that is comforting, but again, out of 1000 plus members, there is virtually no response. It's especially discouraging when I have exciting news such as being invited to speak at a certain function, or being cited in an article, and I eagerly want to share the news with people of "like-mind".

 

I'm sure everyone here has had times when they've experienced something joyful, such as getting that huge promotion at work. What's the first thing you want to do? Ya, share it with your closest friends and and family and celebrate. It's no fun if you have to keep it to yourself, and as of late, I'm beginning to feel like...If I can't share my VI Corps news with everyone here, then where? See what I mean, folks?

 

So I am especially grateful to people like Colin, and Todd, who keep the SOCIAL aspect of this forum going strong. It would be so very lonely without members and FRIENDS like you. :pdt09: We all need our social network to help us feel connected.